Wow, I have hardly had a minute to sit down and write. We have been so busy lately. Our adoption classes started in Phoenix 3 weeks ago and we are learning an immense amount each class. We have been very blessed to stay in a beautiful guest house just minutes from the agency. Sarah and her family have welcomed us with love into their home and we have just been blown away by their generosity. She arranged for our babysitters each week and even our dinner the first week when we were parked on the freeway in the biggest storm of the year! God has so carefully orchestrated each step of this process it has just been miracle after miracle for His glory. I cannot wait to look back on this experience when we have our little one nestled in our arms and whisper all the grand and small things the Lord has done to bring us together in that little ear. We do serve a mighty God.
I just want to encourage anyone reading this who might have felt the tug of adoption on their heart but thought it an impossibility financially-God is the ultimate provider. We can see how he has provided from the very start. Just today Aaron and I were talking about how we can't figure out where all the money is going in our checking account when we haven't been spending any extra. We realized that we are spending almost $200 a week on gas and food to get to Phoenix and back each Tues. We received a generous gift unexpectedly a few weeks ago and that has enabled us to meet those expenses. This week we got a call from the pregnancy center in town. One of the home school moms in our group is friends with the director of the center. They held their annual garage sale this weekend to raise money for the center and were wondering if we would want the left overs for our own garage sale to raise money for our adoption costs. YES!!! We showed up expecting to get a van full (she said their was a lot) and left 3 FULL van loads later. Now that garage I had worked so hard to get emptied out and organized after our move is full once again. This coming weekend we are going to have our garage sale. I have been sorting baby clothes for two days and have at least 2 garbage bags left of just baby clothes to sort by size. Then on to the bags and bags of men's and women's clothes-that's just the clothes! What a huge blessing. Any money from this garage sale is strictly profit as everything was donated. God is so good.
We did FINALLY get all our paperwork turned in at last weeks class and have been told by our references they were already sent forms to fill out. By the end of this process the agency is going to know us INTIMATELY. We are really under a microscope for this home study. I am glad to see how carefully check the homes and families they place babies with. I do have a feeling if every parent had to go through this to have a child there would be a lot more responsible parents out there.
We also have our final fee agreement signed which means we know how much more we need to raise to finalize our adoption. Drum roll please.....$8000.00! So needless to say we are very excited and are waiting expectantly yet not idly to see how the Lord will provide. We are active looking for creative ways to earn and raise these funds. The garage sale will help but we are also going to be doing a t-shirt fundraiser (I will post more later on that) and we sent out our first of many adoption grant applications. This was the only one that did not require the home study to be complete-just in process. So we should hear in 6-8 weeks. As soon as we have our home study in hand we can send off more applications. Any suggestions for other fund raisers are welcomed.
We are getting so excited. We have been told that the time for the home study to be completed and certified through the courts can be 90 days however friends of our who are with the same agency and worker said it can be even sooner than that. We do not have to be certified to accept a placement we just have to have our report written by our adoption worker, Sharon, and then she has to present us to the agency's board. If they accept us we will officially be able to accept a baby. For our friends this only took about 2-3 weeks! We do have to have the money available at the time of placement and the birth mom does have to choose our family so their are still a lot of variables but we want to be ready so we are working diligently to save our pennies and work our hardest to raise these funds.
Also, although we are not currently sending out support letters we are accepting donations through paypal. There is a "Donate" link on the right had side of this page if God has laid it on your heart to help us financially with this need. Even if you cannot donate funds please do join us in prayer. We have so much ahead of us emotionally and know that this is going to be a trying process in many ways. Here are some specific ways you can pray:
1. Pray for the health and safety of the birth mom and baby (yes, she could be carrying that baby right now!)
2. Pray that God will be preparing us for a future relationship with the birth family and that He might use this experience and our family to dray them into a relationship with Him.
3. Please pray for guidance and discernment for us as we have decisions ahead of us that will affect our little family for the rest of our lives.
4. Pray that God above all would be glorified in this process. That despite any hiccups along the way in OUR plans we would see His greater plan and give Him glory.
5. Pray for our financial needs. $8000.00 is a lot of money for us and though this fee is much less than other agencies it is beyond our means to supply on our own. We know that God will be the one who does it.
6. Praise our Lord with us. He has provided so much so far. He has shown us how He gave our family gifts of creativity and has helped us to live frugally and has used those gifts to provide for our adoption expenses. We are blown away at how quickly the funds have come in up to this point. We are excited because since we cannot just write a check for our fees from our own resources we KNOW He will be the one to provide. We are totally dependent on Him-which I think is right where we are supposed to be.
7. Lastly, please pray for the birth mom who is faced with a very tough decision. Please pray for strength for her and for support from family and friends. Our agency works very hard to prepare these moms for the choices they make and does follow up with them as they grieve also. Please pray for God's hands to embrace her and uplift her as she makes this most generous decision.
I am amazed at how much you can love someone you have never met. I am grateful for the time I spent at Life Light Pregnancy Help Center before we move out here to Havasu. I think the training I received there really prepared me to understand where the birth mom is coming from and have a compassion for her I might not otherwise have. She is giving us the greatest gift any person ever could. I absolutely cannot imagine making the choice she will but I am so grateful and I love her so much for that. This little baby that God knows already even though we don't is going to be one loved child. I almost feel bad for it. All three girls are beyond excited to help take care of it and Levi has the crib in his room and tells us this is where the baby will sleep. When we asked him what kind of baby he wanted (gender and race) he replied I want a purple brother or sister. Hmmm...that may be a tall order to fill.
"Praise be to the God and father of our Lord Jesus Christ." I have always loved that greeting in scripture. There is no one who understands the giving of their child in love than our Father in heaven so with all that we are we praise His name!
Our Financial Goal:
Adoption Fee $7679.80 Due at time of Placement